#432 The Struggle to Love

So many of us struggle to love, but we don’t recognize it because we are so focused on our spouse’s struggle to love us. We are judging and blaming and accusing them for showing up poorly, when in reality, we are a hot mess of dysfunctional behaviors as well. When we can courage up and take a good, hard look at our own struggle to love, we can begin to create a beautiful space of clean love within ourselves and an ability to accept and appreciate our spouse in ways that were not available to us before.

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Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts:

#29 Validation on Apple on Spotify

#92 Clean Love on Apple on Spotify

#118 100% Responsibility  on Apple  on Spotify

#125 Love It Before You Leave It on Apple on Spotify

#148 Grace & Grudges in Our Relationships on Apple on Spotify

#189 Patterns of Behavior on Apple on Spotify

#191 Why We Seek to Control Others on Apple on Spotify

#212 Healing Your Disconnected Relationships on Apple on Spotify

#216 One Up and One Down Relationships on Apple on Spotify

#223 It Really Is All About You on Apple on Spotify

#239 How to Own Your Own on Apple on Spotify

#242 Circling Back Around on Apple on Spotify

#272 Stay In Your Lane on Apple on Spotify

#277 Your Spouse Is Not Your Responsibility on Apple on Spotify

#288 When You’re in a Tough Marriage on Apple on Spotify

#289 Why Our Relationships Needs Validation on Apple on Spotify

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#298 Friendship in Marriage on Apple on Spotify

#299 Love Is Not a Reward on Apple on Spotify

#321 Clean Love and Relationships on Apple on Spotify

#331 Sense of Self on Apple on Spotify

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#395 You Can’t Make Them Love You on Apple on Spotify

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