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#431 Intrusive Love

Love is one of the greatest gifts we have to offer the world and ourselves. Sometimes, though, we start straying into other people’s lanes in intrusive ways. We start behaving in ways that overstep ou...

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#432 The Struggle to Love

So many of us struggle to love, but we don’t recognize it because we are so focused on our spouse’s struggle to love us. We are judging and blaming and accusing them for showing up poorly, when in rea...

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#410 What Staying in Your Own Lane Looks Like

Learning how to stay in your own lane can be tricky because so often what we see as being helpful and kind and of service, is actually getting in someone else’s lane. In this podcast we’re going to lo...

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#407 10 Tips for a More Fulfilling Marriage

Research shows that the quality of our lives is dependent on the quality of our relationships. I have learned a lot over the past seven years of coaching clients on difficult relationships and in divo...

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#391 The Christmas Adventure starring Calm and Chaos

Sometimes we get these expectations around the holidays, and we think that this should be such a magical time that no one should get grumpy or annoyed, and that we should feel the joy and peace of Chr...

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#379 How Coaching Changed My Life with Lisa

When Lisa first found my podcast over three years ago, she was in a tough place: struggling with divorce, her relationships with her adult children and their spouses, and feelings of her own worth. On...

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#371 Greatest Hits – The Relationship Circle

The Relationship Circle is a concept that I keep coming back to again and again with my clients. Understanding the relationship circle helps us stay in our own lanes and resist the temptation to try a...

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#369 Normal, Difficult, Human Interactions

When humans act like humans, it can sure make our lives difficult. Of course it would be easier if they all just did what we wanted and behaved in ways we thought were appropriate, but that’s just not...

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