#395 You Can’t Make Them Love You

Whether it’s a spouse, our children, our parents, siblings, friends, or coworkers, we don’t have a say in whether or not they choose to love us. And whether they love us or not, it says nothing about us and everything about them. It also doesn’t say that they are wrong or bad, just that they are a human with their own preferences and wants and desires, and maybe we’re just not a good match for them. And that’s okay. Learning to make peace with others not loving us is a huge part of growing up into middle-age.

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Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts:

#127 Our Worth & Our Works on Apple on Spotify

#230 People-Pleasing on Apple on Spotify

#260 Your Lovability and Your Love Ability on Apple on Spotify

#270 People-Pleasing & Kindness - What’s the Difference? on Apple on Spotify

#272 Stay In Your Lane on Apple on Spotify

#293 Dating in Mid-Life on Apple on Spotify

#304 Personalities, Preferences, and Perspectives on Apple on Spotify

#331 Sense of Self on Apple on Spotify

#332 Sense of Self – It’s All In Your Head on Apple on Spotify

#333 Sense of Self and Dating on Apple on Spotify

#334 Sense of Self and Marriage on Apple on Spotify

#349 It’s Okay If People Don’t Like You on Apple on Spotify

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