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#429 Emotionally Mature Conflict

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Because we’re all humans who see the world from our unique perspective, it is inevitable that we will experience conflict in all of our relationships. As we increase our emotional maturity we are able to lean into these conflicts to create connection rather than contention. But what does it look and sound like? That’s what we’re talking about on this podcast. I have lots of examples for you to understand where you are in your journey to stronger emotional maturity, and be sure to check out the show notes below for more podcasts that will grow your capacity and skills for having more emotionally mature conflict.

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Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts:

#3 Resolving Conflict on Apple on Spotify

#5 Learning to Listen on Apple on Spotify

#20 Blame and Responsibility on Apple on Spotify

#77 Other People’s Opinions on Apple on Spotify

#110 The Cost of Being Right on Apple on Spotify

#117 Anti-Responsibility on Apple on Spotify

#118 100% Responsibility  on Apple  on Spotify

#147 Hijacked By Your Emotions on Apple on Spotify

#148 Grace & Grudges in Our Relationships on Apple on Spotify

#156 The Benefits of Being Wrong on Apple on Spotify

#164 How Being in Control is Destroying Your Life on Apple on Spotify

#165 I Would Never Act That Way on Apple on Spotify

#166 Imaginary Friends on Apple on Spotify

#167 I Didn’t Sign Up For This on Apple on Spotify

#193 No Back-Burner Issues on Apple on Spotify

#194 When You Feel Sad, Or Bad, or Mad on Apple on Spotify

#196 How to Break the Blame/Defense Cycle on Apple on Spotify

#197 Connecting Through Conflict on Apple on Spotify

#216 One Up and One Down Relationships on Apple on Spotify

#239 How to Own Your Own on Apple on Spotify

#242 Circling Back Around on Apple on Spotify

#243 Having More Honest Communication on Apple on Spotify

#244 The Relationship Circle on Apple on Spotify

#245 Transactional Relationships on Apple on Spotify

#251 Contention is a Choice on Apple on Spotify

#258 Communication That Connects on Apple on Spotify

#272 Stay In Your Lane on Apple on Spotify

#286 How Miscommunication Destroys Relationships on Apple on Spotify

#288 When You’re in a Tough Marriage on Apple on Spotify

#289 Why Our Relationships Needs Validation on Apple on Spotify

#290 Resentment and Contempt in Our Relationships on Apple on Spotify

#297 Why Can’t We Just All Get Along on Apple on Spotify

#298 Friendship in Marriage on Apple on Spotify

#304 Personalities, Preferences, and Perspectives on Apple on Spotify

#307 Curiosity, Not Criticism on Apple on Spotify

#319 Get Ready to Rock The Boat on Apple on Spotify

#331 Sense of Self on Apple on Spotify

#332 Sense of Self – It’s All In Your Head on Apple on Spotify

#346 How to Stop Reacting and Start Responding on Apple on Spotify

#357 How to Be More Understanding on Apple on Spotify

#369 Normal, Difficult, Human Interactions on Apple on Spotify

#370 Conscious Conflict on Apple on Spotify

#386 Overcoming Resentment on Apple on Spotify

#392 Vulnerability and Validation on Apple on Spotify

#404: People Over Problems and Processes on Apple on Spotify

#405: How to Create a Partnership on Apple on Spotify

#408: When You Get Triggered on Apple on Spotify

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