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#432 The Struggle to Love

So many of us struggle to love, but we don’t recognize it because we are so focused on our spouse’s struggle to love us. We are judging and blaming and accusing them for showing up poorly, when in rea...

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#429 Emotionally Mature Conflict

Because we’re all humans who see the world from our unique perspective, it is inevitable that we will experience conflict in all of our relationships. As we increase our emotional maturity we are able...

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#402 A Better Way to Validate

Sometimes it can feel difficult to validate the people we are in relationship with. Validation is an effective way to support others and let them know we see their struggle and that we love them, so h...

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#398 Adam and Eve and the Partnership of Marriage, part 1

How the world views Mother Eve is how the world views women. Doctrine from The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints teaches that Eve was intelligent and courageous, that she understood that par...

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#396 How to Have an Easy Relationship

Many of us were taught the idea that relationships are hard. But I have a secret for you. Relationships aren’t hard. Keeping your ego in check and behaving kindly rather than harshly is the hard part....

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#390 You Can’t Fill Their Bucket

Many of us grew up hearing about the bucket analogy, an we were taught to believe that we could fill other people’s buckets by complimenting them or telling them great things about themselves. In this...

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#389 The Partnership of Marriage

Creating a partnership in our marriages was the goal when we got married, and yet many of us over the years, end up retreating into a paper marriage, a place where we live in the same space, but we do...

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#385 Self-Forgiveness

Sometimes, forgiving ourselves can be really hard. And not only the process, but also the long-lasting repercussions of not being able to accept our human flaws and move forward, to let go of a painfu...

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#381 Psychological Boundaries

Psychological boundaries are internal boundaries that we set with ourselves, inside of our own heads. They allow us to decide what ideas, thoughts, or beliefs we want to accept and which ones we don’t...

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#377 What Is Your Intention?

Learning to live our lives with intention is a powerful way to begin to create the lives we truly want. And it is going to push the boundaries of your comfort zone when you step into intentionality. B...

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#375 Sense of Self and the Relationship Circle

Having a strong sense of self is the key fundamental tool to creating strong relationships. Only when we have a sense of belonging to ourselves, a sense of our worth and value, of our inherent goodnes...

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#374 Greatest Hits - Creating More Safety in Your Relationship

When we feel safe in our relationships, we feel we can show up with more vulnerability.  When we show up with more vulnerability, we create more emotional and physical intimacy.  But oftentimes, the b...

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