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#435 Fair – Another Four-Letter F-Word

When we get stuck in the defensive cycle of judging what is fair and not fair in our relationships, we create destruction. Life has never been fair and it never will be. What if that’s okay? What if h...

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#418 Loving What Is

Many of us are in the habit of resisting things we can’t change, and it creates a lot of unhappiness and havoc in our lives. Byron Katie wrote a book entitled, ‘Loving What is’, and it presents the co...

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#372 Greatest Hits - Why Our Relationships Need Validation

Being able to validate your relationship is an important tool in creating a healthier space for the two of you to live and love. Validation is something that we often seek from others to shore up our ...

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#351 Grace, Shame, and Letting Yourself Off the Hook

Sometimes we go into a one-down space and spin in shame, other times we might go into a one-up space and justify our poor behavior by blaming others, both responses that harm our relationships. When w...

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