I Am Not Your Friend

Coaching is amazing.

Here are just some of the things I’ve coached clients on this week:     

• How to set boundaries from a place of love rather than a place of fear.

• Helping a client process their years of spousal verbal abuse and discover their unacknowledged fear that they aren’t good enough, and then begin the process of acknowledging their own worth.

• How to show up with clean love when you are around your adult children who are making decisions that impact you in a negative way.

• Understanding that we don’t have to hate another person to stand up for ourselves, in fact, it’s a much healthier space when we can love ourselves enough to protect ourselves while also feeling compassion and love for the other person.  Love just feels so much better than hate and the results are always better.

• Beliefs that hold us back from stepping into our next best self.

• How to process difficult emotions in a healthy way.

Here’s the thing about having a coach.

I am not here to be your friend.

Am I kind?  Absolutely. 

Do I love you?  Absolutely.

But where a friend’s job is to be on your side and fight for your story, a coach’s job is to help you see how you are creating unwanted results in your life.

I will be honest with you about how you are sabotaging your own life.

I will help you see where you are acting from a place of fear rather than a place of love.

I will help you see patterns and behaviors that are keeping you from becoming the person you want to become.

And because of this, sometimes coaching is hard.

Sometimes I show you things about yourself that are painful to see.

And there are even times you may not like me very much because I show you these hard things.

But, you can always trust me to be honest with you.

You can know that I want you to create the results you want in your life.

I want you to be the best version of yourself possible.

My job is to help you see the things you can’t see that are holding you back from what you really want; things such as:

• Confidence

• Peace

• Better relationships

• Self-Respect

• Self-Love

• Patience

• Growth

If you’ve thought about hiring a coach, this is the perfect time to do it.

The Summer Family Reunion Season presents us with so many opportunities for awareness and growth - it's the perfect gift for you.

I’d love to help you. 

It’s what I do.

Want to understand a bit more about coaching?

Check out podcast #141 Coaching & Counseling. What's the Difference?