Grace and Mercy
I've become really fascinated by the concepts of grace and mercy.
Often these two terms are used interchangeably.
Grace is defined as sanctification enjoyed through divine assistance.
Mercy is defined as unmerited divine assistance given to humans for their sanctification.
Both mercy and grace refer to something given to us as humans that we don't deserve, that brings sanctification, or allows us to be free from sin.
I think the reason I've been drawn again and again to these concepts is my realization of just how flawed I am.
As a human, I was created to be flawed, to grow from one state to another through the process of trial and error, meaning, I make a lot of mistakes.
And I now understand more fully how dependent I am on Our Heavenly Parents' and Christ's mercy.
I also am starting to get clear on how much my extending mercy to others, and them extending mercy to me, is such a vital part of my growth process.
As I learn more clearly how to truly offer mercy and extend grace to others, I become a person who lives more in alignment with the Christian values I espouse.
To create the intimate partnerships and relationships that we desire, the ability to offer mercy and grace is vital.
Without the safe space to make a mistake and then circle back around, repent, apologize and try again, our relationships become superficial and somewhat unsatisfying.
My ability to offer mercy and grace to another requires that I step into a deeper compassion and acceptance of our human experience.
Being able to receive grace and mercy from another also requires that I step into a deeper compassion and acceptance of my human experience.
We were created to make mistakes, to grow one understanding at a time.
Coming to embrace this concept is empowering and liberating.
This quote from Jen Hatmaker has really impacted my thinking lately:
'God's first bent is mercy. He longs to liberate the victim from her oppression, and the oppressor from his confusion. When either emerges transformed, it is a victory for the heavens.'
God desires both the oppressed and the oppressor to 'see the light', change their direction, and move closer to Him.
When I choose to accept that the Atonement of Christ was for the oppressed and the oppressor, I can learn to forgive both myself and others and let go of past pains.
I pray that we can not only seek God's mercy and grace, but also that we can extend mercy and grace to those around us.
Offering mercy and grace is one of the greatest gifts we can give to others and to ourselves.
God's Speed, My Friend.
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